I was talking with my colleague today and he mentioned something really interesting. It's not anything new, but somehow, I never quite saw it this way...
He said, I've tried changing for someone, and trying and hoping that someone would change for me. But it's never worked. Now I ask and pray that my girlfriend will just be herself. Then I can accurately evaluate whether I like her as she is, and what habits are harder for me to tolerate. One day if she told me, if you really don't like [a certain habit] then I won't do it at all, then I will really appreciate that. Or, can I compromise? If not, then maybe we're not made for each other after all, or now is not the right time.
Pretty true eh? Sometimes timing is everything. Sometimes, things just don't work.
Anyways, thought I'd share with you all while I continue to struggle through the performance review at work.............
Posted by kuki at December 31, 2007 02:26 PMpush for performance review! XD
last day, girl. good luck!!!
it was fun last night seeing/listening to the LE stars!!
I think no one is perfect so I tend to tolerate or compromise when I can... even if people are made for each other there will be little things that they dislike about each other... i think if they like each other enough they can see through those things and will be willing to change... haha but what do i know... i'm in no position to talk about relationships... yet.... XD
Posted by: cuddlie at December 31, 2007 04:34 PMagreed. expectations are different tho. if you are expecting change you might be disappointed! gotta communicate and work together XD
thx for listening to us crazy people sing!
Posted by: kuki at January 2, 2008 12:58 AMAh! You actually updated your blog! I haven't checked here for a while. :p
This comment has no relation to the topic. :p
I'm just glad to see a new entry (actually two entries). :)
Posted by: thpme at January 9, 2008 11:39 PM
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